Tao for Tuesday

There are days, often it’s a Tuesday for me, where things just do not go as planned. Distractions, being a bit too relaxed after having navigated the first full day of the week, or focusing elsewhere, the focus not to be found right in front of my face.

This is especially true at busy times of the year, and December is probably the busiest month for the majority of us with social obligations, shopping to do, gifts to wrap and meals to plan.

There are people who find December the hardest month of the year to get through. Those who are grieving family members or friends whose absence is most keenly felt during the holidays.  We may be missing those who are unable to be present due to other circumstances and our commitment to our day-to-day activities take a backseat.

What I can offer is this. There will be days when you burn the toast. You might even burn two slices as you try and repeat the process. That means it’s time for Plan B. Leave the toast. Choose something else that requires less attention and less energy. Something that is easier to cope with that allows you to simply be present.  Being present is very often enough.

There is no secret remedy for getting through hard days and difficult moments other than to acknowledge them. With grace. And gentle moments of love.